She admits to overthinking texts. To having days where she feels insecure. To loving hard and sometimes getting hurt.
In an exclusive chat with BellesaPlus, Cubbi opened up about her journey from shy observer to one of the most refreshingly honest voices in the intimacy and lifestyle space. For Cubbi, confidence wasn’t a switch that flipped overnight. It was a series of small rebellions against the idea that we should shrink to fit expectations. “I used to think confidence meant being loud or perfect,” she shares. “Now I know it’s just showing up as you are—messy, curious, and a little weird. That’s actually what people connect with.” That philosophy bleeds into everything she does. Whether she’s discussing body positivity, sensual self-care, or the awkwardness of first dates, Cubbi refuses to gloss over the real stuff. Sensuality as a Daily Practice At BellesaPlus, we talk a lot about reclaiming pleasure on your own terms. Cubbi lives that out loud. BellesaPlus - Cubbi Thompson
“Social media makes vulnerability look aesthetic. Real vulnerability is ugly and beautiful at the same time. I try to show both.” She admits to overthinking texts
“We’re taught to compartmentalize: work over here, pleasure over there, feelings somewhere else. I want to create spaces where they all get to sit at the same table.” In an exclusive chat with BellesaPlus, Cubbi opened